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Even ballers change

All things change when you grow up from out the Northend of Middletown, CT. For instance, this very moment, I stand in front of this ball court watching some dudes play a couple of pick-up games. But back in the day, it used to be little boys balling and then leaving the court smelling like little boys. I can look now and see men. One could be a banker, a grocery manager, real estate agent, student at UMD… it goes on. But they are men now.

Doesn’t mean the instincts have changed, the attitudes matured, or the lifestyle differs. Blackness lingers on. And especially with men from hoods; that mentality doesn’t differ.

This Too Shall Pass, Mr. Delonas

While Delonas' Wednesday cartoon might be catching slack, this one is hilarity.

While Delonas' Wednesday cartoon might be catching slack, this one is hilarity.

Constant Love Jitters over Continental Buffalo Crash.

My conversation via Instant Messenger with one of my college friends immediately after hearing about the Continental flight that crashed near Buffalo.

“IS CONSTANCE STILL AT HOWARD?”

“Yes.”

“OMG, thank God. I was so worried. Did you hear about the plane crash?”

“Yes! I know! I called her last night to make sure she was alive and well!”

“OMG, I was trippin…I was so worried.”

When I say “trippin,” I mean TWEAKING. I could not get the thought out of my head that my Buffalo-native friend, Constance, was on that flight headed back to her hometown for Valentine’s Day weekend to see her boo. I had to confirm with at least two friends before my hypochondriac brain shorted out.

Tweaking.

Understanding Journalists, Journalists

Let me just say that life is a blessing, first and foremost.

Someone once told me that journalists are the people whose lives are more interesting — captivating, fascinating, epochally [almost] unbelievable sometime — than the people they write about. I can now say that that is true.

 People always tell me that I should write a book about the many episodes, if you will, of my life. I say, ‘Maybe Jason will make a movie someday about it.’

I look at my editors, the fellow communications major around me at school, the leading journalists and communicators of today’s media (Oprah Winfrey, Cathy Hughes, Phillip Dixon, and, although figuratively underdressed, DeNeen Brown of the Washington Post), and even though I may not know them intimately, I have seen and looked into their eyes; and, looking at them, you see the wear and tear, the overcomings and the humility they’ve endured, and you can clearly see it’s made them better people, if anything.

Oprah’s life before television was violent, sexual and self-esteemless. She was poor, but smart. She managed to get through.

Once Cathy Hughes marriage eventually ended with Dewey, yes, she bought her husband’s share in WHUR, but she had to give up her own place and live at the station for a while just to get her financials in order.

It may not seem that big, but it opens doors for understanding. These people aim to help people and tend to be very understanding, very privy on how to teach younger journalists that the field of journalism is not as it appears to be on the outside…create an understanding in young journalists.

Journalists are people first. Then writers.